Maybe not too complicated to understand

[Michael Mc C]

I guess you're right from a DB'ing perspective. Maybe even just a human perspective. Unless she was somehow absolutely convinced that doing this was a mistake, nothing will keep her from going there for long.

But she can't be convinced.

It's just that this is so reckless and dangerous. We have 3 children that need their mom. She is putting so much more on the line with this than was originally imagined. I guess that's what they all do to some degree. They don't see any negatives in what they do. To them this is salvation.