Yes, sorry. She does not work and had her L draw up a trial sep agreement (which we did not file with the court and which my L reviewed)outlining the budget and how much was to be sent home. I have set up my own acct.
We did not know about the months being differnet then, and I will say that we have worked together on the best way to make ends meet. The budget has a item for groceries and other expenses, and that is where the problem is I think.
When we did that I was whatever you want, just tell me. But I have graduated from that place a bit now. Which makes the discussion of debt paying delicate right now. I do not want to look weak, and I know that if I say I wil pay off all of your debts it woould not make her come running back to me. At the same time I do not want to play too rough.
