The questions were no great scientific study, rather they are based on the assertions of a particular psychologist.
Many of you that have been here for a while may recall my oft used analogy of the sex starved marriage and the process loop. Interestingly, this psychologist/author uses a similar construct - process/content in order to describe where a person is along their "life path" for lack of a better phrase.
The author's name is Dr. Herb Goldberg, and the name of the book is "What Men Still Don't Know About Women, Relationships, And Love"
He asserts that the " woman in process"... "at her worst"... "While she may act sexually responsive and aroused, hers is a fragile interest in sex that can easily be made a low priority. Being loved, not being sexually desired, is her motive". (p54)
Of additional interest, he claims that women who consider themselves "in touch" via feministic qualities, are actually out-of-touch in many ways, one of them is particularly interesting; "She is out-of-touch with her sexism, which is every bit as intense as men's objectification of women. Men are attractive, sexy and desirable to her to the degree that they are powerful and successful. A man is a success object, who is attractive to the extent that he can be a rescuer, a protector, and a provider. None of these necessarily have any connection to his qualities as a person-the thing that most women believe is the major priority." (p48)
Anyone have an opinion?
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
