With MLC Women - Do they come back????

[missmyfriend]

...* 4 times I have told people I think they have a good chance at reconciling based on what they wrote. One worked out, and one I'm not sure will the other 2 are up in the air, both will surprise me if they don't as long as the LBSs actually DBs and can do the time.

Jack, I will never make my decision to give up based on what anyone says or what the numbers say. However, I am curious as to what you would say regarding my situation. Of course, anything you read about my scenario is skewed to my perception and limited to what I have shared.

Personally, I respect both you and Lawless because of how you handle your posts and you both are men of great compassion. I am not trying to flatter either one of you but both of you have made some excellent observations and I have applied some of what you both have posted.

Lawless, I think I understand what you are saying. I think I would agree that many WAS/MLC persons don't return out of embarassment. But I do believe the majority of M that never reconcile usually falls with the LBS. I think far more LBS have burned bridges with their spouses, either intentionally or otherwise.