Thanks, all, for the support! Trying to keep the PMA here, and figure out how to screw with his head this weekend
If I find out that she is in fact the OW, and my H involved my kids, I may not be responsible for my actions...
Someone asked if I know her status with her H- unfortunately I don't and have no way of finding out. No access to my H's computer or cell- all are work related and password protected. Anyone good at hacking?
Saffie- huge similarities here; pianos, tables, its all the same. Raising 2 kids also put space between us and I, like you, didn't realize how unhappy my H was until he dropped the bomb; thought we'd get through the tough years with the kids and then get things back on track. How did you finally get proof of the affair? I'm also dealing with the "love you but not in love with you" thing- did you get any of that? How are things for you now? Am trying to act "as if", and be "an exciting, mysterious woman"!
Me 39 H 45 M 11 T 13 D6 S3 ILYBNILWY 7/07 H still here, possible OW
