Don't worry, Heim -- I still love you! My 2x4s are out of love -- I'm not sugarcoating anything with you anymore and haven't for awhile now. I know you get frustrated with us sometimes, and I understand that completely. However, I think you understand, too, why we do it. I read something you wrote to mwel yesterday (thanks for the name drop and compliment, btw!), and the advice you gave him (which was excellent, btw) was word for word the advice you should be giving and taking yourself. Go back and reread it -- and then follow it yourself.
Regarding the email (yes, I'm bringing it up again), I know you don't have anything to gain from lying here. If you really did do it on accident, that tells me that you're about as far away from detachment as I am from the computer I'm using to type this. I definitely think this action of typing Love You to W warrants some serious reflection, don't you?
Again, Heim -- you're my butterfly. Sugar! Baby! (remember that one?)
My 2x4s are out of love -- I'm not sugarcoating anything with you anymore and haven't for awhile now. I know you get frustrated with us sometimes, and I understand that completely. However, I think you understand, too, why we do it. I read something you wrote to mwel yesterday (thanks for the name drop and compliment, btw!), and the advice you gave him (which was excellent, btw) was word for word the advice you should be giving and taking yourself. Go back and reread it -- and then follow it yourself.