Yes, you are probably right, but he knew that I had never been HD and I did want him to be satisfied and happy, so I wanted to be a good wife to him and, as you said, "give" him sex when he wanted it. If a person is LD, can they help it? I mean, don't you think I would prefer to be HD? Just think how much different my M would have been over the years. It's not like I chose to be that way on purpose. But, it's not enough for a wife to be "willing" and "happy" to give to her husband, he wants her to "desire" him as much as he does her. I can understand that. But, if she can't....I mean her body just won't do it....then what? That is why I felt like I had been rejected then b/c he never explained like you did....he just said it wasn't enough. Well, that was not a good thing to tell me. Then years later when I finally reached my peak....or whatever happened....he walked out of the bedroom. So, go figure. Bet you don't have an answer for that one, do ya? I desired him then. So, why did he chose that time to stop sex?
Oh, I talked to a woman taking Zoloft and she said it kileed her sex drive. Said she had zero sex desire. The doctor doubled my dosage yesterday, so that doesn't sound very hopeful, does it?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
