Oh Sue. What an A$$. I only recognize the A$$ like symptoms because I live with one. I am sorry. You pegged it with his lack of concern. What about him saying "Did you have plans tonight..." before he *assumed* you were watching D3 and he was free to go out. What a tool. I understand the sadness and emotions turning to anger, I really do.
I think they might be seeing each other more. What's with taking the van? And being out later, and the vague answers?? I get so mad when I think he thinks he is 'snowing' you and you are clueless. HUGS Sue!