Thanks for not jumping on me. After a meltdown yesterday over all of the MC stuff, I think that you may be correct on a number of issues. My DB coach thinks that I need to go get an apartment to show her that there are some consequences to this decision. However, I am not sure yet.
One thing that I can hang my hat on is that she agreed and scheduled an additional MC session. So even though her verbal cues are that she is done and there is nothing that can change that she is willing to go again, even if she is thinking that it is to facilitate the D. And by the reading of the book and the exercises that have been suggested I am hoping that we can shift this inbalance.
So one more day of getting myself better.
Me: 33 jacka** whom lied, stole, cheated, and basically treated DW like crap for years DW: 29 kind soul who gave too much to me over the relationship
S7 S4
M: 7yrs Bomb: 10/19 Seperated: 10/24
The worst reconciliation is better than the best divorce
