Maybe not too complicated to understand

[Hurtin4certain]

Michael... Im in the same boat as you. I recently found out that my W had sex with OM. It literally made me sick.

I dont know if you can truly do anything to be honest. You cant make her think differently, believe me, I just tried that with my W this morning. Got me no where.

I know how excruciating this is for you. You want to talk some sense into her or chain her up in the attic but the fact of the matter is, she is willing to risk EVERYTHING to be with this guy, EVERYTHING. All you can do is let go.

I know how hard this is... Ive been in panic mode all morning as my W is already planning to spend Xmas with OM and she told me she has moved on from our R. So cruel.