Funny thing. H is finally learning finances the hard way. Gave me my weekly chk last night and asked me not to cash it until after 5 so that there was enough in the acct to cash his check. Then said he had no money so I gave him $10. I thought he might not accept it but he did. I am not looking for him to pay it back, but I felt good giving it to him. Now perhaps he understands a little more. And he has few expenses compared to what I have with the kids and the house. Welcome to a dose of reality.


Me 43 H 44 S-13 D-9
Separated 90 days 6/28/05
H Says he is done-10/2/06-day after 18th anniv
Moved out 10/2/07-to father's house-day after 19th wedding anniv-GF now
H Filed for D 7/08