1. No way can I be a friend while she has a BF. 2. I don't respect her for what she is doing to the kids 3. I deserve better. I'm not a horrible person like she makes me out to be. 4. I'm moving on.. if she tells me they have broken up and she wants to work on us.. it will all depend on where I am.
Are you in my head?? Especially #3!! I am tired of being told what a horrible person I am (also having H tell OW the same things).
I can't believe she texted that to you. You didn't respond, did you? She is unbelievable..I am sorry its in your face.
Her justifying herself (good mother, good person) is her just trying to 'sell' herself to you, to say "How can you be like this to me, when I am such a wonderful person?". Jar, you do deserve better. You deserve to distance yourself, even if its for the moment, or permanently. You'll know when you are completely done, and until then, jump ship, save yourself and go dark. HUGS
