a question of rings

[Ophelia]

I agree with the others. If you want to wear your ring, wear your ring, and if she makes an issue of it just say (calmly) that it's your decision to wear it, and that's just as valid as her decision not to wear hers.

For the record, I'm still wearing mine even though H is living with OW, (and her kid) and the only contact I've had with him over the past year has been the ocassional email, (last Christmas Eve was the last time I saw him or actually spoke to him because he's been avoiding me ever since). I've had to switch the rings to my right hand, purely because I injured my left ring finger and now the rings won't go back on over the knuckle, but nevertheless I'm still wearing them. It's my way of telling everyone that despite it all, I'm still standing for my M.