woog, i am a planner also, i looked around the town weeks ago to see what was available. my oldest daughter(25) got all over me about planning for something that may not happen. she said be careful for what you look for, you might find it. don't focus on something that far in the future. concentrate on db'ing now. because if you put effort into future you are taking away from your efforts to win your wife back now. just my opinin. as far as affection i feel like i am in the desert crawling for a drop of water. my affection bank is empty!!!!
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023