Hi doa- That's a tough one without knowing all of your financial details. This may be a really stupid question because trying to get an MLCer think rationally doesn't really work but I will say it anyway...Have you talked with your W about some kind of budget just to get you through for now? How about contacting your credit card companies and seeing if they will lower your credit limits...or is that trying to shut the barn door after the horse is already out?
Your W noticed that you had new clothes...Could that be a good thing that she is noticing what you are doing?...In the grand scheme of things, I guess it doesn't really matter...just keep going and GAL.
