Thanks. My W has been going through $ on clothes, nites out, etc., since the summer began.
When she brought up the finances the other night she said she noticed I had a lot of new clothes and wondered how I was paying for them :-) She did say that she was no better than me... I so wanted to explode but did not react at all to her comment about me. Seems it's ok for her spend $ we don't really have but when I start GAL and doing some things for me, well... :-)
You are right. I will just focus on how do we maintain in limbo. The last time we had an R talk (weeks and weeks ago) she said she was 98 percent sure we were over. I told her OK, that for me I would rather be in limbo with the 2 % rather than push her to make a decision.
