what i have learned and am learning is to watch out for ourselves. i dont know ur stitch but can tell u that my h has not fufilled his obligation since June - in the beginning he was "all good..." since then it has been waht he could wehn he wanted...in the mean time he is BLOWIGN money left and right.

I suggest jeez' I dont know. I just know do what you have to do to watch out for you financially - that has been the advice to me all along. IN REGARDS to you talking to w about R - you DONT ...you live forward as if it is limbo - and I understand ur feelings...


M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06
Moved out 3/12/07
D final 7/30/2008
finding myself again