Thanks - I emailed H and told him I would take him up on his offer and he responded no problem.
So I will head down later tonight, do a little shopping and check in later.
No expectations (truly - there are none), more suspicions than expectations since we are so new to all of this with no end in sight.
But I will take the kindness now, because after he figures out that we are so far apart on the property settlement, he will more than likely not be so kind anymore.....