Still stuck in Limbo Land

[maryfromaustin]

hi maris,

it sounds like you're tired of his BS!!! and you should be.

for him to tell you "he did let someone in" meaning OW, then by all means he needs to go. why do you want someone like this? ask yourself.....why do you want to continuously take care of a jobless, selfish, cheating, drunk? your child does not need this. all your child will remember is you being sad all the time, daddy not being home, daddy drinking. the time has come to stand up and say what you mean. even if it hurts! put YOURSELF first not him. he's not helping you financially - what kind of man is that? obviously he doesn't have YOU as his priority much less your child.

it's good that you told him to leave if you/kid weren't in the picture. he needs a wakeup call. perhaps changing the lock will wake his @ss up! so he doesn't come back, what then? will you be without his financial support? he's not even helping now, no biggie on that part. you'll be without affection. he's not even doing that! no sex. we, as women, can do without for a while. i've heard of this wonderful invention for women. you can "use" it in the privacy of your own home. no instructions required.

you're getting tired of him. same ole excuses. same BS. eventually you'll wake up and say "i need a man in my life. not this free loader who doesn't even pleasure me"

until then, my prayers are with you. stay strong! you're a business women, single mother (he's not in the picture), and i'm sure you're a fun person to hang around. a couple of mexican martinis will leave all man problems behind.

take care.