Money! It is extremele tight due to the fact that we have a lot of debt and are maintaiing two households currentyl due to work obligations and our house not selling. W took $ out of her retirement to pay off credit cards -- but only used 1/2 of it. The other half she is not so clear on. I am willing to do the same to pay off my cc, but she was assuming I was going to pay off her remaining balance... riiight.
I told her that we have a lot to consider about debt and cash needs no matter what happens, and that maybe we could talk about it this weekend in person.
I so want to go off on her about this and say if I new things were going to work out that would be one thing, but in this trial separation period it's awkward at best...
