I have resisted the temptation to status check, and I am pretty happy that I have. Things continue to improve, and the periods of alien "weirdness" are fewer and farther in between, while the nice and affectionate H is definitely making more and more appearances.
Even though I said quite a while ago that I was fine with him talking to his friend on the phone and that I was not a jealous person and was not going to let those sentiments take over my life, he has since stopped carrying his phone around. It was welded to his side during the crisis time, and he now leaves it out all the time, and lately he has made excuses to show it to me. I don't know if this is his way of saying that he has decided to cool it on calling his friend or not. To me, it really does not matter because I really did decide to believe him when he said that on his side the relationship was never more than a friendship, but he has never denied that on her side it was more (and I don't doubt that receiving that attention was very enjoyable and ego-boosting).
For this weekend, I have GAL and PMA on the planner. Go to art lesson tonight, meet with a colleague on the weekend, play with the kids, and especially be so sexy and irresistable that H will be exhausted but happy at work on Monday;)