It sounds like you are proccessing your sitch very well.
I do agree with OT you need to just let H know By action. Just move into your room if he askes tell him. But don't offer to much info( ie: getting into r talk). Let him do any of the R talk that way you know where he stands and know that he is working on himself.
On my end im'e just so frustated by H's Mom but, i think it is because i worry about her she is getting almost as bad as h's dad, just in different ways. Im w worried that it will take it's toll on us.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
