[/quote]LOL...I am always brave in theory and I am so brave in the scenario conversations I have in my head with him before they actually happen. Then he gets so angry and turns things that I weaken and panic.[quote]
Unfortunatly Your H knows this and he is playing it to the hilt.
Maybe he will have rights SO2 but will he take advantage of them. Being the imature person he seems to be, not wanting to spend time alone with the children he has now, do you really see him taking the baby and taking care of her for the weekend or even a day? I don't. He trys to pawn his kids off on you and you say they get on his nerves, don't think you have to worry.
You need to stay dark. RED IS RIGHT and we have been trying to say you need to DETACH!!!!! Let him figure himself out. Right now he screams, yells, lies and you come running. STOP!!
Show him that you don't need HIS DRAMA (thats what it is not yours HIS).
Sorry i couldn't respond back to you yesterday when you needed so much help but, RED IS RIGHT please listen. I know it is dso hard but we feel it is what you need.
((((( so2)))))
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
