No worries, C. Things will happen for you in that area when the time is right.
Can I share something with you though? I know people have different opinions about this on the board, but I would like to share a bit of my personal experience. It is just over a month ago that I realized that I was completely done with my H. No hoping for him to change his mind and come back. My opinion of him is very low. My feelings for him are dead. One of the things that I was really glad about when I realized this, was that there was no other person for me in the picture. I knew that I was done with my H because I was done with my H, and not because there was someone else to move on to. I had nothing to feel guilty about and I knew that there was no one else clouding my view of my H.
I don't see that you are in the same place with your W that I am with my H. I am not saying that you can't date if you want to, that is your own decision. But I guess I just wanted to share my own experience. I am really glad that things worked out for me in the order that they did.
