I would like to thank you all for your best wishes, we are in our new home now and getting sorted slowly, xh's new wife was seen up at the old house on monday with her parents apparently xh wasn't there, he knows we have gone as the estate agent called me to say someone was wanting to view the place, I told them I had moved out and they would have to speak to ex, so in a matter of hours she was up there sizing up the next lot of money going her way, wonder why he wasnt there, he won't have liked what he saw anyway and that could be why, but if I were him I wouldn't have sent the new wife and inlaws to see the dishevelled place that he has let go over the years, let alone the place where you have kicked your kid out from.
