tostada, Thanks for the suggestions, but I don't think that we're to the point where she would want to travel with me. I don't really see it as an option for me to go either since we would be staying with him.
Jenny, I woke up this morning thinking about it, so I decided to write my letter. I've posted it below. It does seem to me that she's "feeling me out". It's almost like she wants to know how much I'll take. That's why I feel like I need to write this letter. I need to establish my boundaries and let her know where I stand. Let me know what you think of the letter. Thanks, B
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Lately you've been saying how you want to be real. I want to be that too, so I have to be real with you about my feelings about you and XXXX. Your willingness to become emotionally attached to him and how you've handled it regarding me have eroded my trust in you. Your unwillingness to sever ties with him only degrade it more. If you were to go to Spain to see him, I'm not sure that I would have any trust left to give you. I love you deeply and want to trust you just as much. I feel like I owe it to you to let you know my thoughts on this. I don't see this as an obstacle that we can't overcome. Just as you need to build trust in me again, I too need to rebuild my trust for you.
B
Me: 29 W: 28 T: 10 M: 7 No kids 2 Dogs and 1 Cat With Parents: 09/16/07 Apartment: 10/13/07 Back Home: ~2/16/2008
