MB says to cut ALL contact off and have an intermediary handle all communication.
This seems a bit too drastic. We are still friendly; he still cares (in his way).

What I would like to do is write a letter that explains that I don't want contact so that I can heal and so we can both have some distance to get some perspective. Have all contact be only via email regarding finances/household matters only-no face to face contact. Reiterate that at this point I am not interested in a D.

Thoughts?

Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing