Yeah F21..you could join Julie's old sorority...Alpha Chi HO
So I was going to ask that same question. Why would you let anyone (judge or not) decide your fate? I'm so glad to see that you've taken it into your own hands. I always believe that where there's a will there's a way. Besides, you've already given up enough for someone who wasn't man enough to appreciate you.
I was sorry to read about the police report and all of the other crap, ok realizations that you've had to deal with. You are one strong cookie!
Keep doing what your doing in taking back your life. GIRL POWER!!! (Hey I like the Spice Girls)