Originally Posted By: micoms

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I know what you mean with one minute they seem to want to work on M and another don't care at all. When i talked to W at Tday she seemed to be thinking about what i was saying, then she would just get cold again. Try to have patience with your H, hopefully he'll continue to connect. My W hardly initiates a call. We mostly talk when I go to D24's house. Keep up the good fight. remember Patience, patience, patience.

Mike


I know exactly the tone of voice you are ref. when say your W goes cold ! H is dead silence, I don't even believe he keeps breathing. I do become impatient to quickly, Irish in me i guess. Try not to and the funny thing is if I am working with an animal I have all the patients in world !!! Some times I even have to tell myself with H, just imagine you are trying to communicate with one of your pups, go slow. Isn't that strange I have a short fuse for two legged animals and all time in world with 4 legs.!!! lol speaking of pups, i hear mine are into something right now. BRB...Whew, just a plastic water bottle they are playing with.
Yep, if your W was sleeping as she was, most likely depression. Could from those D_m from hormone change to. that raises Hell for us ladies!
I am going to try Coaches and see what happens. First I have to get the $400.together. Saving as I type. figure it is at this point one of my best options. Spoke with staff member @ Michele's office and agree with her input. My concern is the longer time goes on, what if time isn't healing his wounds, maybe more time isn't better. ??? I will keep you posted anyway. I am going to start reading each day a couple posts by those who have made it back and am going to read a couple posts bythose who have gone through MLC.
Now those angel fish you raised. By any chance were they called double dark black ghosts???
you sorta peeked my curiousity and I've been on line. discovered Just an hour from me is an angelfish breeder and has some really nice koi angels !!! Actually they are breath taking to be honest. So emailed and ask if I could pick them up to save shipping.
Your fish must have been breath taking if they had vails size you say !!!!Wow. see dog breeders always want to raise a pup or two fits the script of your fish. Mike after all time I spent on line did not locate a single fish breeder raising anything close to what you were breeding.
Thanks for reminding me, I must be patient, patient, patient. Maybe one of these days I'll send H a thank you card. Like it or not, planned or not, he certainly forced me to learn an awful lot about myself. some of it shocking and some really hurts. If only we had forsight.
later,
grid


-Love of dogs, every time I loose a dog to the bridge,part of my heart goes too. Ever time a puppy/dog comes into my life,he gives me a part of his heart. If live my life long enough, in time I'll have the heart of a puppy. -unknown (w/character limit)