TFH - My H will not be happy that I am not blindly accepting his property settlement proposal. He says it is fair and if we can not use lawyers - that would be better.
Right.
RCR gave me good advice. He will spew. He will react like a child who hasn't gotten his own way. Let him. Let my lawyer deal with this.
I understand wanting to DB...but you have to protect yourself. Let her be angry. Just don't reflect her emotion.