WAW hasn't walked yet, but emotionally dead

[mako]

I got something similar from my W a week or two ago - She was complaining that I lived so far away and that I needed to move closer. This was about three weeks after she moved out of our house. She's certainly not 200 mile away, but I guess the principle is the same.

I'm not sure if it is a fence sitting exercise or something else. Maybe someone else further through the process can enlighten us

Yeah, I don't get this either. You're the one leaving, you could live in the same house if you wanted

But I think in my case it's a guilt thing. She thinks I'll be happier there...the happier I am the less guilt she has to feel for leaving me.

But maybe not...maybe I'll just act as if she just wants me in the same city cause she has some doubts and thinks she might change her mind. Not too likely at this point, but I'm not a mind reader, who knows what she's thinking?