Frosty, I do remember your post on this. What I was thinking was that these people might want to share some of the details about this, such as how long did the process take, did their mates ever really talk about their confusion and happiness, etc. I know many of us have questions we'd like to ask just to help us understand and cope with this. Thank you so much for your reply. I agree we are all successful in that we have integrity and have not given up easily.