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What if, what if, what if.


Indeed. So, what if? So what? What is the absolute worst-case scenario? Surely you've lived through it already, haven't you?

I honestly don't know anything other than your recent posts about your sitch, so bear with me, and a little velvet 2x4 here, if I may...

Are you somehow dependent upon H? Financially, that is? Or in some other way?

You also might want to spend some time trying to figure out what it truly is your afraid of. It might not be as bad as you think, which would alleviate your fear. As I said, haven't you already gone to Hell and lived to tell about it? How much worse can it get? I'm guessing not that bad.

How many times have you read DB? Most of us who've been here for a while have poured over it at least 3 times, and have read many other books we've found helpful -- I call them my "tool kit". It took a while to learn to put them into practice, but now they are nearly second nature to me.

What are the things you were doing before that worked? Are you doing them now? Sometimes once the WA returns, we loose sight of those things. Might be a good time to get back to basics.

Chin up! Remember to "act as if"...for when you "act as if", "as if" becomes reality sooner than you think!

Also, btw, well done on nipping the conflict last night in the bud after 20 minutes! I'm sure that's an improvement on the past...you are definitely moving in the right direction. Next time maybe it will be after only 10 or 5! Be patient with yourself.

M

Last edited by IAChild; 11/30/07 03:24 AM.

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