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Originally Posted By: Hurtin4certain
Mark... how come you never separated from your W? If she was friendly when you return from business trips, how would she react if she hasn't seen you in a month?


Why have I not separated? Because I did not abandon my family in favor of another person. I am not moving out!

Make no mistake, though. She was not friendly today. She was indifferent. Distant.


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Originally Posted By: hurtandlost
May I be optimistic? Now with the OM mask falling down she may have missed you Mark. ;\)


No. I think she misses him much more. Think about it. This was her soul mate. And now he is gone.

As I have said, she knows my indifference to her. And it's not manipulative. I am tired of being hurt, living with a cheating spouse, and I have told her as much.


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Mark,

Sorry to bug and intrude but remember: Four Stages of Grief

- Denial and isolation
- Anger
- Bargaining
- Depression
- Acceptance

May I add : - Moving on for the best

We've been there done that sooner.


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So Mark,

How is W reacting then today?

Has she realised now that you didn't send the email?

Saffie


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Hi Mark. Hope you have a good Friday. I applaud you not moving out, although in some cases, it is best, but not yours. Stand your ground mister.....

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Have you heard from Theo lately?

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Originally Posted By: saffie
So Mark,

How is W reacting then today?

Has she realised now that you didn't send the email?

Saffie


Wife is cordially distant. Not friendly, but not hostile either.

And Saffie, she is convinced that I sent it. As I have said before, if I were in her shoes, I would not believe me either.

I doubt she will ever believe otherwise.


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Originally Posted By: saffie
Have you heard from Theo lately?

saffie


Nope, no word from Theoden.


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Originally Posted By: lwb
Hi Mark. Hope you have a good Friday. I applaud you not moving out, although in some cases, it is best, but not yours. Stand your ground mister.....


I am of the opinion that, in the absence of abuse, the spouse who was cheated on should not move out. The bottom line here is that she abandoned the family, not me.


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I talked to him on Tuesday. He had a back waxing and a eyebrow waxing scheduled. I think he also mentioned a bikini wax.

He was fine, just nervous to have someone ripping hair off his nether regions.


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