You know, I said earlier that if OW's H would have told me this months ago (that he was divorcing her), I would have been a frantic mess, up all night, worrying, stressing, etc. I have what I think is resignment now, a feeling of just letting things happen and then I can decide what I want. Months ago, them getting a divorce would have been the worst thing ever, now maybe its a 'shake up' that we all need in some way....
