Quick question. xh keeps asking me why I am upset. Setting aside the duu-uh aspect of that question, the conversation usually goes like this...
xh: I don't understand why you're upset. me: Because you were involved with both of us at the same time. xh: Ok. Maybe I was in denial about JD because of her situation. me: She's married. xh: I know. I was scared of what it meant. me: You were in as much of an R with me, as with her. xh: No I wasn't. We're divorced. Is this about JD? Would you be upset if it had been anyone else?
How in the world do I respond to that? He seems to think it's just because it's JD, or just because he lied. No acknowledgment whatsoever that we were playing married.
He also keeps calling me to cheer me up. Sheesh. I'm trying to remember to thank him for caring, and I keep saying that I'm not going to feel better anytime soon.
Dropped off DS at his place for his night there. I had xh meet me downstairs--MIL and bf are back, and I am just not dealing with that right now. At least xh is no longer calling me a big meanie for not hanging out with him. He gave me a hug, and told me to eat something. When DS clung onto me, he then kept asking me if I want him to bring DS back to my place later. He said he would, if he could stay the night. I said no.
