day by day

[nephartiti]

Yoyo, my head is spinning from that story. Not sure I got the details straight...

Lwb, ((((hugs))) BIG ((((HUGS))))

There is no way to know what will happen next. We are logical people using reason to speculate. THEY are not reasonable. Therefore, we can not accurately predict what will happen next. They may try to make it work as Romeo and Juliette with their forbidden love. Them against the world. That doesn't mean it will last, mind you.

What is important here is that you brace yourself for whatever storm comes your way. Keep your focus on you and your girls. Try and stay out of the line of fire.

It is a good sign that OW took the news badly. My STBX didn't even blink when he was served.

You know we are always here for you.

btw, everyone, lots of good stuff on here today. I have heard that I was "horrible" and that I was a "crazy manipulative bitch". I think I BECAME those things after I discovered the affair. Before that, I was a stressed out working mother of three with a newborn. I didn't get a maternity leave. My baby was born on the first (rent time). I worked through my 3 day labor and the days following. My newborn was hospitalized when she was a week old for several days. I moved into another apartment when she was a month old. It was a stressful time. Like Sue said, I knew it was TEMPORARY and I expected that my H would TALK TO ME if he needed more than he was getting. I would have done anything for him, up until about a month ago.