Also just wanted to say also that I think it is perfectly okay to tell her hey I mean that letter so please stop calling all the time. Only do so if it pertains to the kid's and is important. Then tell her that you will call the children but really don't want to talk to her when you call. That you need to start letting go.
I am just curious has there been times when you were stern with her? I remember you saying she stated that she was scared of you. Let me tell ya she is NOT acting as a woman who was scared.
