She also told me about her most recent job interview in New York, how she thought it went well but if she doesn't get it she'll stay in this area for a while. I have mixed feelings about that, I wish her the best but also it will be very hard to have any type of contact or effect on her from 200 miles away, although I'm still considering going there too. I still find it odd that we may move to the same place separately, and that she even encouraged that.
I got something similar from my W a week or two ago - She was complaining that I lived so far away and that I needed to move closer. This was about three weeks after she moved out of our house. She's certainly not 200 mile away, but I guess the principle is the same.
I'm not sure if it is a fence sitting exercise or something else. Maybe someone else further through the process can enlighten us
