Right I firmly believe this that she doesn't know what life is really like without you Jar just like hurt said.

Because she still calls you 20 times a day and you answer. Or she texts you and you answer. She asks you to pick up things and run errands, etc. Also while she is doing this she is constantly throwing this affair into your face. Leaving pictures and flowers around, etc. I don't know as a woman I would be fearful to do this with my husband. Not that he has ever hurt me physically. But deep down I know he wouldn't tolerate it at all. So it would scare me.