i think that you have to carefully gauge how often to invite. If she's only talking once a week... then invite no more than that.

One day, you may be surprised by an accept of your invite, mako.

just dont base your motivations on whether she takes you up on an invite these days, and you'll probably be a happier person

My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle