LWB, About 2 years ago my friend's H was having an affair with a married man. The friend's H was horrible to her. He was very hateful to her always putting her down. He often told her that if the OW would divorce her H he would marry her in aheartbeat. My friend threatened to expose the affair the OW's H, but everytime she said this her H would get even meaner. Apparently the OW was scared to death she was going to do this and her H would divorce her. My friend finally got tired of it and kicked him out upon the advice of her pastor. My friend's H and she have reconciled since then. I guess the OW wasn't willing to give up her H. I guess OW didn't think my friend's H could support her and her kids from a previous marriage.
This sitch you are in reminded me of my friend's sitch. This could very well be the straw that broke the camel's back.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
