Well, I guess I will see how it goes. I figure it could be that he wants to take advantage of my comfortable situation somehow, or it is that he is taking a step towards coming back and doesn't want to be around OW, or maybe more neutrally, this is just a nicer place to be than the apartment. Or, as it is often the case, a combination of some of the above.

If he takes paper towels (???--don't get that) from me or snoops or leaves the place a mess, he will have to care for D2 at the apartment again.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D