Oh I forgot to answer. NO way could H support himself and OW. No way. OW would have to stay in the school district and its not cheap around here (have no idea how *I'll* do it if we divorce). Not to mention he would have NO support from his family (emotionally speaking).

I have no idea what will happen with me, H, OW, and OW's H, but my gut tells me I am in for hard times...

I promise to try to hold on to the board during the big tides, hurt. As long as you guys will be around, I'm good.