heh. kinda a fun idea.
but, we take driving vacations. We share a car ride to get there. So its rather difficult to "leave early if she wants".

Plus, we just had a.. what you might call, an "un-fight". Where she "wasnt mad" over the fact that I planned some events recently with our children, and "invited her"... but didnt _plan_with_her_.
[she systematically has not been coming, even on the times i manage to invite her well in advance. and has been making snarky comments about how I "seem to be taking care of the children's social life just fine by myself". sigh...]
So I think that not including her in the planning, would be seen as an insult by her.

Thanks for the thought, though \:\)

My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle