On the other hand I have also read that one of the differences between men and women in MLC is that women tend to want to end the marriage and not look back much more quickly than men do. Seems the MLC men are content to go find a new playmate and continue being married without it bothering them too much. The women seem to be inclined to want to actually start over with another man.
It does seem that all of the MLC women have already got something going when they "announce" the end of the marriage. And off they go....... Yes, it does seem in the threads I read that many of the women who have husbands in MLC seem to stick with them, work hard, while the husband doesn't do much to end the marriage while on his "journey". Messed up, to be sure.