i haven't read your whole sit, just the posts since yesterday. that sounds like something my H would say/does say. That he's just waiting for me to leave after the holidays. he knows it's coming. DON'T dwell on that. she may, she may not. You'll only find out if and when that happens. For now, keep that PMA about being happy you are sleeping in the same bed and getting your hugs in the morning.

As far as space goes, you'll probably never get it just right. As she (her moods and emotions) change, so will the amount of space she needs. You've been giving her lots of space, good for you. With the working late - she may have appreciated the space, but not the lack of a phone call. We get like that (yes, i mean women \:\) ) we live together, we want to know when you'll be home. We may not care when or that you're there are all, but we want to know. We want to know everything ;\)

I agree with craig on the R talks. read DR. i'm just starting, but that seems to be what everyone else says, so i say go with it!!

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ann