had a good therapy session last night...therapist let me know how WAW is codependant & has always put her own needs away to people please & how she drank & druged over that all her life. now that she is sober for the first time, realy sober ....& with the help of therapy she is alowing herself to feel her feelings...& she is confused & doesnt know who she realy is & what makes HER happy...she needs time & space to find herself & then maybe she will know what she wants to do...keep the family together or be on her own....so im in limbo....holding....I must stop looking to her to make me happy...I must get on with my life...find what makes me happy....I realy have alot to be grateful for....


why im here
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1247860&page=1#Post1247860
me 47
w 44
m 20
s 18
s 14
s 8
bomb dropped 10/8/07