Hey Sir, i say ditto what everyone else said... that sucks!!

Delaying the process will probably just piss her off. Doesn't mean you couldn't take a little time... ;\) but really, if she's filed, this is what she wants and the more you stand in her way, the more angry she'll be with you.

There are lots of folks here still working it out after papers were filed. I like reading those. Even worse case senario, there's hope.

This might shatter her little fantasy world in which you pay for her new life. Maybe she'll see that the grass wasn't greener, your side just needed to be watered a little... \:\)

Take care...

If i can't fall in love... I'd like to fall in chocolate! ~ Author Unknown

ann