woog, as far as space is concerned, you have posted before that you were giving lots of space, no pursuring, no talking about r, no letters, etc. you sound like you are already doing all that. if w wants to talk about r. just validate, don't necessarily avoid it all costs. i think it depends on how she is approaching the r talk. i am no expert. re read dr. maybe that will clarify.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
